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Couch potatoes: Are we living in the age of squishy children?

    As parents, we are all concerned about the health and development of our children. In recent years, we have been hearing more and more about "couch potato" children, which refers to children who spend too much time on the couch, often watching television, playing video games, or browsing on tablets and phones. These children exercise little, which can have a negative effect on their health and development in the long term.

    What could be behind it?

    • Technology available at any time : In today's world, technology tools are easily available and many children prefer to use them in their free time.
    • Safety Concerns : Many parents are concerned about their children's safety, so they are less likely to let them play outside.
    • Lack of time : Parents are busy and often find it difficult to find time to organize active programs for their children.
    • Comfortable alternatives : Children also often choose more comfortable, less stressful activities.
    • Social pressure : Peers and the media can also influence children to spend more time in front of screens.

    What should we pay attention to?

    • Weight gain : A sedentary lifestyle can lead to excess weight, which can cause long-term health problems.
    • Sleep disorders : Time spent in front of screens can negatively affect the quality of sleep.
    • Development of social skills : Too much time spent alone in front of screens can hinder the development of social skills.
    • Physical health : Lack of exercise can weaken muscles and stamina and increase the risk of chronic diseases.

    Tips to get the "Couch Potato" kids out of this role:

    • Setting an example : Let's set an example with an active lifestyle. If children see us moving, they are more likely to follow our example.
    • Establishing rules : Determine the amount of time that can be spent in front of the screen. For example, we should not spend more than one hour a day in front of a screen.
    • Joint activities : Organize joint family activities, such as trips, cycling or sporting events.
    • Incentive rewards : We reward children for spending time actively. It can be a shared game, movie or other favorite activity.
    • Sports clubs and training : Enroll them in sports clubs or other physical activities where they can make new friends.
    • Active toys : Buy toys that encourage them to move, such as a jump rope, ball or bicycle.
    • Gardening : If we have a garden, involve them in gardening. It's a great way to get outdoors and exercise.
    • Screen-free zones : Create screen-free zones at home, for example in the bedroom.
    • Making a time plan : Let's make a daily time plan that also includes active pastimes.
    • Support and encouragement : Be supportive and encourage them to try new sports and forms of exercise.

    With the above tools, we can help our children develop an active lifestyle. In this way, we not only protect their health, but also contribute to their happier and more balanced lives. Together, we can easily transform the "Couch Potatoes" into active, healthy children.

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    Since lack of exercise can lead to a number of health problems, including obesity, cardiovascular disease, and poor mental health, it is worth discussing this with the affected children. An active lifestyle promotes children's physical and emotional well-being, helps the development of social skills and increases self-confidence, so they should be guided in this direction as well. Here are some tips for the conversation according to age groups:

    Conversation with young children (5-10 years)

    • Playful approach : Use playful examples to show how fun movement can be. For example, "How about a scavenger hunt in the garden?"
    • Positive feedback : Praise them when they spend time actively. For example: "I love how you run so hard!"
    • Example : Let's take part in the movement together. For example: "Come, let's take a long walk together in the park!"

    Conversation with elementary school children (11-13 years)

    • Awareness : Let's talk about why movement is important. For example, "Did you know that regular exercise helps you sleep better and feel better?"
    • Setting goals : Let's set common goals. For example, "How about we ride bikes together three times a week?"
    • Create a routine : Make exercise a part of your daily routine. For example: "We take the dog for a walk every afternoon after school."

    Talking to teenagers (14-18 years)

    • Emphasis on independence : We let them choose what form of exercise they want to try. For example: “What sport would you like to try? Maybe basketball or dance?”
    • Health Effects : Let's talk about the health benefits in more detail. For example: "Regular exercise is not only good for your health, but it also helps you manage stress."
    • Joint programs : Let's plan joint programs that are connected to movement. For example, "How about we go hiking in the mountains this weekend?"

    Tips for effective conversation

    • Listening and empathy : Listen to our children's feelings and concerns. Let's give them space to express their opinion.
    • Positive reinforcement : Praise them for every small success they achieve in movement.
    • Creative solutions : Let's come up with playful, creative solutions to incorporate movement into everyday life.
    • Common goals : Set common goals and work together to achieve them.
    • Regularity : Make exercise a part of your daily routine so that it becomes a natural habit.

    Remember that change does not happen overnight. Let's be patient and persistent and work together with our children to lead a healthier, more active life. Shared experiences and activities not only improve their health, but also strengthen family bonds.

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