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The Balance of ‘What?’ and ‘How?’

    Now that we've discussed many fundamental principles, let's dive into the details regarding what and how.

    What to set as goals, we discussed in previous articles, but here are two more practical ideas:

    • Number of tasks: We've emphasized many times that less is more. But as a rule of thumb, we can say that setting 7+/-2 goals for a maximum of 6-12 months, depending on the goal, is ideal. Also, only older children can think in such timeframes; younger ones are better suited for shorter durations. Moreover, even for older children, it's advisable to break down longer-term goals into smaller tasks, so they experience success more frequently, which will keep their motivation high.
    • Personalization: In our upcoming articles, we'll provide numerous ideas for setting goals, but it's crucial to tailor them specifically. Every child and every family is unique, facing different challenges. Therefore, even a simple goal, such as brushing teeth, can branch out into various aspects, such as quantity, frequency, or quality. It's essential to precisely formulate these goals for them.

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